We all know I date a lot and when I go on a date I hardly have any expectations. Well, I of course hope that we'll have a fabulous time but besides I'm very open to the outcome. Especially as I am questioning monogamy I will always see what kind of connection a person can … Continue reading Expectations & Assumptions
[CW: mental health, toxic relationship, emotional abuse, gaslighting] It was about one year ago when I saw him for the last time. We broke up shortly afterwards. It was one of the most difficult and painful decisions I've ever made. But it was for the better. Yesterday I met him again. Accidentally as we both … Continue reading He Who Wasn’t The Right One
[CW: non-consensual actions during sex, male entitlement] It was our second date and he came to mine for a coffee and a chat - I invited him on purpose because my flatmate wasn't in which meant me having sex wouldn't bother her. And yes, I fuck on second dates. Sometimes even on first dates. Sometimes … Continue reading The Odd Feeling After
I asked my beloved Twitter follower what they always wanted to know about menstrual cups and I think I covered most of these questions in my previous posts about how to find the perfect cup and how to handle it. But there's always more so this post will cover the rest. I Don't Like Tampons, … Continue reading Menstrual Cups Part 3 – FAQ
The right handling is just as important as finding the perfect menstrual cup to prevent leakage and support a comfortable fit. Before you use the cup you sterilise it by putting it in boiling water for a few minutes. It's not really necessary to boil it every month but if you are more comfortable doing … Continue reading Menstrual Cups Part 2 – Put It In, Get It Out
Many of us have a cuppa every month and if you have never heard about menstrual cups or have many questions about using them, this post is for you. I was a passionate user of tampons since I was 14 years old and actually never thought about changing to something else till more and more … Continue reading Menstrual Cups Part 1 – Finding the Right Cup
Alright, sit down and follow me through my probably most interesting and unexpected Tinder hook-up. It happened last year that I gave Tinder a shot and it didn't take long till I had the first matches. One of them clearly stood out cause he wore a suite (kink is kink is kink) and was nicely … Continue reading The Naked Guy In My Living Room
Sometimes one topic is the focus in different conversations with several people. And this is one of them: love language. Nah, this post is not about the cute and kitschy nicknames, it's about the kind of love language we often don't recognise as such and we usually use unconsciously. Love Language Dictionary In our everyday … Continue reading What’s Your Love Language?
And here we are - it's the first of January and we are looking into a new year, into a fresh start with maybe high hopes or just the resolution to not have any resolutions at all. For me personally 2016 has been difficult but was also the year where I came closer to my … Continue reading Happy New Year!
A bit more than a week ago I had a very nice date with someone I actually like but at some point my head completely blanked and I was probably the most boring person in the world. In these situations I always feel like I need all my resources for pretending to be a normally … Continue reading Life, Dating & Sex With Hashimoto’s